Here are some questions to ask your partner about using sex toys while in a relationship. Discussing how you each feel about sex toys in general can be extremely insightful. This can be a very sensitive subject for many people but it’s worth finding out.
- How do you feel about using sex toys or other pleasuring accessories?
- What is your opinion of masturbating with sex toys?
- What kinds of sex toys or other accessories have you used for self pleasure?
- How do you feel about using sex toys while in a relationship?
- How do you feel about masturbation while in a relationship?
- Do you think it’s cheating if someone masturbates while in a relationship?
- What kinds of sex toys would you like to try together?
While discussing these sex questions together, you’re sure to find that certain attitudes and assumptions you each have are radically different based on the type of pleasure accessory involved. For example, do you think sex toys like vibrators and dildos are only for women? What about butt plugs? Are sex toys only good for masturbating with or can/should they only be used together? Are sex toys only required if you are having performance issues? Are strap-ons or double ended dildos only for lesbians or can straight couples use them too?
The video below provides a light hearted look at how many couples view sex toys in their relationship. It’s unfortunate that many people are still embarrassed about self pleasuring with or without sex toys especially when they’re in a relationship. Instead of exploring their true sexual nature together, they hide their sex toys even from the person they’re being physically intimate with. Of course, masturbation is still an important sexual outlet even while in a sexually satisfying relationship. But why not use any and all pleasure enhancement accessories you can to explore your full sexual potential with your partner as well.
If you’re curious about using toys together to spice up your sex life, make a sexy game with the following sex question:
- What naughty foreplay ideas can you think of that involve using a vibrator?
See which one of you can come up with the most ideas then pick one or a few to try out. If you run out of ideas, visit FriskyForeplay.com/vibratorideas and discover over 30 sexy ideas for using a vibrator together as foreplay. See if you came up with any different ones. By playing this little couples game, you’ll learn new sexy ideas to help make your orgasms more intense and pleasurable. Sex toys are great for self stimulation but they can be even more fun when used together in and out of the bedroom. Surprise your lover with a new sex toy for couples and explore creative new types of erotic pleasure together. You can dramatically spice up your sex life and improve your marriage when you gain the confidence to share your adult toys and sexual fantasies with the one you love.
Please leave a comment and tell us what you think about using sex toys alone or together with your partner.