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Dating Questions: Sexual Fetishes
What kinds of fetishes have you heard about that arouse your interest?
A fetish is a form of sexual desire in which gratification is linked to a particular object, item of clothing, part of the body or activity. The degree of eroticism for the fetish item is usually abnormal. This may or may not be a problem for the person with the fetish or their partner. As a topic for dating questions, directly asking someone if they have a fetish might seem a little inappropriate. But when you ask your partner about their awareness of fetishes and any that interest them, you can start an intimate discussion where you both may feel more comfortable revealing any fetish like desires.
Fetish play can be a fun form of kinky sex that you can experiment with to spice up your sex life. If you do discover that your partner has an intense fetish that you’re not comfortable with, this may be a sign of a potentially unhealthy relationship that you may need to evaluate carefully. There is a big difference between normal sexual turn ons and fetishes that can lead to problems unless you have compatible erotic preferences.
If you’re curious about different kinds of sexual fetishes and the types of sex play other couples enjoy, browse the JT’s Stockroom website for some ideas (click the banner below). Look through it with your partner and use the different categories of sex toys to spark up a hot, intimate sex talk about how they might be used in your erotic adventures together. Try not to be too critical about any of the items even if they seem really bizarre to you. Be as open as you can to the erotic possibilities and keep the conversation going. Your partner may have a special fantasy that includes a kinky toy and you might be surprised just how fun it can be.
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How kinky or sexually adventurous do you feel you are and why?
Sex doesn’t always have to be romantic, sensual and loving. It can and should be a little wild, naughty and fun too. For two people in love, sex can be a life long erotic adventure where you get to discover all sorts of pleasure possibilities. You want to know that your partner is open and willing to explore how thrilling sex can be even if it means getting a little dirty or messy. Ask sexy questions to start a conversation discussing how you each feel about more adventurous types of sex to determine if you have compatible perspectives. These are great dating questions to ask your partner since it gives you a sense of how successful your relationship will be. It’s not a question of what you’ve done already but rather if you’re prepared to keep your sex life together exciting, interesting and fun.
Take a look at the book A Little Bit Kinky. It’s a couples guide to rediscovering the thrill of sex. It’ll inspire you to push past your inhibitions to savour new sensual delights and make your sex life sizzle.
If you want to explore some kinky sex play, browse the website for JT’s Stockroom together with your partner. Just click on the banner below – they have a full range of erotic accessories for any kind of adult play you can imagine (and a lot that may shock and amaze you). They also have a lot of information to help you explore more adventurous sex play safely and with confidence.
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What kinds of unusual things do you find erotic and get turned on by?
Although our biology plays a big part, many of our sexual preferences are formed based on our early experiences. This is a complex psychological process. Because our experiences, interpretations and emotional impressions are all different, we are each unique in what we find erotic and arousing. But regardless of how your erotic preferences developed, they define your distinct sexual personality and affect how you interact with your partner. It can feel scary exploring and learning about what turns you on let alone discussing it with your partner. Although it requires a lot of trust to share these deeply personal and private details, revealing insights into your erotic nature can be extremely rewarding for both of you. By asking intimate dating questions about what turns you on, you create a strong emotional connection which will dramatically enhance your sex life.
As you explore and begin to appreciate your unique erotic personalities, you’ll be able to inspire each other to shed inhibitions and reach new heights of passion together. Take a look at the book Getting The Sex You Want for more information about discovering what turns you on. It has a variety of exercises to help develop your sexual communication skills and expand your sexual comfort zones together.
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What kinds of activities do you consider to be kinky?
When thinking of dating questions to ask, keep the topic of kinky sex reserved for when your relationship gets more intimate. At some point though, you’ll want to explore how sexually compatible you are together. How you each categorize various types of erotic activities will give you both a sense of your sexual comfort zones and the amount of overlap. Keep in mind that thinking something is kinky does not mean it’s totally forbidden. In fact, the taboo nature of certain erotic pleasures can make it more fun when you’re both feeling a little naughty. Knowing what’s kinky in your relationship just means you avoid it for normal lovemaking while keeping it in reserve for special times together.
As a married couple, you’ll also want to ask each other intimate questions about your current thoughts on various erotic activities. Your attitudes about sex constantly evolve as you grow and learn more. Your inhibitions may have stopped you in the past but you may discover you’re now both open to exploring new pleasure possibilities.
When you ask each other these types of intimate questions in a fun way, you’ll both enjoy talking about sex more. And, the more you talk about sex together, the better it’ll be. Why leave it to guess work, just ask each other and discover what you both want in bed.
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