Communication is extremely important in all loving relationships. Talking and listening to each other is crucial especially when you’re first starting to date. You want to make sure you connect with the right person. But good communication needs to continue even when you’re living with each other. Without it couples can literally drift apart emotionally, end up feeling unfulfilled and eventually separating.
However, if you’re just starting a new relationship, you may find it difficult to bring up sensitive topics especially about sex. Dating questions that involve sex can make you feel uncomfortable. But, as we all know, this is exactly the time you need to be discussing all the important aspects of your life. You need to think and talk about all your likes, dislikes, desires, goals and expectations. Learning about each other’s sexual preferences and perspectives will make your relationship much more fulfilling. It also gives you a better idea about the potential for the relationship to succeed. You’ll have the information you need to decide if the relationship is one you want to develop further or not.
And if you are in a long term relationship, maintaining good communication is even more important. You may think you know your partner fairly well but we all change as we grow. Believing that you know everything about each other could actually be hurting your love life without you even realizing it. A false assumption may even be holding you back from creating an even stronger connection with the person you claim to love. Our interests and desires evolve as we learn and experience more about the world and ourselves. Your partner may have shed restrictive beliefs or inhibitions. They may even be more open to erotic adventures and sexual pleasures initially refused – activities you may even fantasize about still.
It’s curious that many people find it easier to have sex than to talk about it. Social conditioning and various inhibitions tend to make people nervous or shy about discussing this intimate topic. A good way to get the conversation started is to introduce various sex questions as part of a game. Relationship games for couples can help set the mood, the expectations and the guidelines for discussing intimate questions that you want answers to. These types of adult games include a variety of intimate questions and creative ways to stimulate your conversation.
Here are a few quick and easy sex question games that you can play anytime:
- Ask your partner to start by picking a letter A-Z. You then select a word or phrase starting with that letter. Your partner then asks you any question related to that word which you must then answer. Then switch. Go through the alphabet start to finish if you wish (each player does the same letter once).
- Each person writes down a list of questions on business cards or slips of paper. Place them in a bowl and pick them out randomly. You could set a time each day to ask each other one say before going to bed or after making love. Add to the bowl of questions whenever you think of a new idea.
- Each of you secretly write down a numbered list (2-12) of 11 relationship or sex oriented words. On each player’s turn, roll two dice and use the numbers to select words from each list. You then make up a question that uses the two words for your partner to answer. The combinations can be very weird — if necessary make two questions one for each word.
- Pick a relationship or sex guide book and ask your partner to pick a number between 1 and the number of pages in the book. Quickly scan the page and find a section of interest that you can ask a question about. Read the section to your partner and then ask the question.
- Get the iLoveRandomSex app for the iPhone. It has 6 categories of sex related ideas each with 69 ideas. It allows you to select random combinations of ideas from one or more categories. Take turns getting a set of ideas. On your turn, your task is to describe how you would integrate the ideas for one night of passionate lovemaking. Or just use one of the ideas to formulate a related sex question to ask your partner.
These couples games are well suited for long distance relationships when you can only communicate by email, text message (see video tips) or phone call. They are excellent for online dating too. If you are stuck for conversation ideas or want to know more about a potential partner, try these relationship games and get a better understanding of the person you may decide to meet in the flesh.
Playing relationship games together can make asking and answering important sex questions more fun. Spend quality time together sharing your thoughts and feelings. The emotional intimacy you create will amaze you.
If you want even more sexy ideas to talk about, download 500 Intimate Questions for Couples and prepare for a night of hot sex.