Throughout history, various forms of erotica have been created. From temple carvings, pillow books, erotic paintings and smutty literature to hardcore porn on the internet, naughty stories and images of sex serve as both entertainment and education. People are fascinated by sex, so it’s not likely to go away nor should it. Especially now that it is no longer confined to the wealthy or powerful.
For a majority of people today, visual erotica is preferred over dirty stories or even audio-only adult content. Although many people immediately think of racy images and explicit videos as porn, viewing it as erotic art removes the stigma. But, as with all art, the beauty is in the eyes and mind of the beholder.
We believe a mutual appreciation of erotic art can enhance a relationship. Discovering what you both enjoy will require sampling and discussing a variety of adult content. Rather than censoring or stifling erotic desires, being open to viewing, purchasing or even making your own sexy artwork is much more fulfilling.
To start an intimate discussion, here are a variety of fun sex questions about including visual erotica in your relationship. Use these sexy questions to explore how you can spice up your love life with more creative, visual sexual pleasures. These intimate questions are not intended to be fired off at each other all at once. Sprinkle them into your conversations, not in any particular order. You can even ponder them yourself to discover your own feelings and desires.
- What is the most erotic movie scene you remember seeing?
- What is your most memorable erotic scene from a “regular” movie?
- What is your favourite erotic movie?
- What genres of porn are you aware of and which do you prefer?
- What kinds of erotic art would you consider in our home?
- Have you ever been to a live sex show?
- Do you prefer amateur or professional porn?
- For pictures or paintings, do you prefer elegant nudity or explicit sexuality?
- How do you feel about animated cartoon or sci-fi sex scenes?
- How do you feel about searching the internet for erotic art to purchase?
- How would you feel about taking a “life drawing” course together?
- Would you consider hiring a professional photographer to take sexy boudoir pictures?
- How would you describe an erotic sculpture if you were to commission one?
- Would you prefer to be the erotic art or the connoisseur?
- Would you consider submitting pictures of your privates for inclusion in a coffee table book of genitals?
- If you could create a dildo as a piece of artwork, what would it look like?
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- How would you feel about taking naked pictures of each other?
- How would you react if I made you a video of me masturbating?
- If you were to direct my masturbation video, what would you have me do?
- How would you feel about making an erotic movie or home made porn together?
- Have you ever thought what it would be like to be a porn star or director?
- Have you ever fantasized about roleplaying as a porn star?
- What roleplaying scenario would you consider making into an erotic video?
- What kinds of our sexual activities would you like to capture on camera?
- What safe guards would you want to keep our pictures private?
- Would you consider taking a course in photography or video creation to make our own erotic art?
- How do you feel about using graphics software to alter or enhance our photos?
- How do you feel about painting our bodies before making love?
- Would you consider creating an erotic sculpture from molds or 3D scans of our body parts?
These are just a sample to get you started. How many other sex questions can you think of to inspire the use of erotic art to enhance your relationship?
Note that you can reword the questions in subtle ways to affect how you each think about them. You’re also likely to get slightly or even wildly different answers and follow-up discussions. By asking questions differently, you’ll get more insight into both of your attitudes and beliefs. Also, for questions phrased for yes/no type responses, follow up with a request to explain thoughts or feelings about the answer or give your own feedback to keep the discussion going.
For more sensitive questions about porn in particular, see our article Fun Intimate Questions to Ask About Porn. They are focused on helping you both get a sense of your beliefs and past experiences. Discover how this kind of material has and will influence your sex life together. Of course, watching porn can be good and bad. Learning how to avoid the bad and benefit from the good is the goal.
To get even more fun sexy questions to ask each other, check out one of our books featured in the sidebar. We also have a variety of Creative Sex Apps including games like Sex Questions 42 and Naughty Truth or Dare.
If the thought of filming a sexy roleplay fantasy arouses your desire, get one of our books below to whet your appetite even more. They are designed for you to plan out or customize the roleplay scenarios so you can Make It Personal and Make It Happen! Unleash your inner porn star and director. Even if the cameras are just props in your own private show, you’ll have fun performing for each other.
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