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Intimate Foreplay Questions for Couples
Foreplay is an extremely important part of an intimate sexual relationship. But the type and quantity of foreplay that we desire changes all the time. In some situations very little physical stimulation may be required to become aroused because you’ve both used “mental foreplay” to get excited leading up to your sexual encounter. At other times, the stress of the day may require a wind down period of relaxing sensual pleasure before making love together. To feel fully satisfied, an orgasm is not always enough. The quality time together enjoying mutually shared pleasures is what makes for an emotionally fulfilling sex life. Emotional intimacy also involves a range of feelings from affectionate caring to intense passion to naughty fun. By asking intimate sexual questions about foreplay, you can identify your individual preferences and expectations. You’ll discover ways that you can make foreplay even more fun for both of you before and after sex.
Here is a variety of fun sexy questions to ask each other about foreplay. They are intended to be gender neutral so specific references to penis, clitoris, vagina, etc. are left out on purpose. Use these intimate questions to explore how you can spice up your love life with more creative sexual pleasure. These sex questions are not intended to be fired off at each other all at once or even in any particular order. You can even ponder them yourself to discover your own feelings and desires. Note that some questions may seem very similar but the wording is different which affects how you think about it. You’re also likely to get slightly or even wildly different answers and followup discussions. In this way you’ll get more insight into both of your attitudes and beliefs. Also, for questions phrased for yes/no type responses, follow up with a request to explain thoughts or feelings about the answer or give your own feedback to keep the discussion going.
Quantity and Quality
- How important is foreplay to you for great sex?
- When does foreplay end and sex begin?
- What makes for good foreplay?
- What do you feel are the male and female responsibilities in foreplay?
- What defines the difference between foreplay, sex play and after play?
- How much foreplay do you desire on average before the main event?
- How much foreplay do you feel is appropriate before sexual intercourse?
- How much foreplay do you feel is appropriate before anal intercourse?
- In what situations would you forego foreplay and just have sex?
- On average how long do you feel foreplay should last?
- Do you feel we are having enough foreplay before sex?
- What types of foreplay would you like more of?
- Can sex still be good without any foreplay?
- Do you feel you know when I want things sensual or more intense?
- Do you feel I get your body language signals right most of the time?
- In what ways do you feel we can better communicate our desires?
- What time of day do you most feel like having more foreplay?
- How can we arrange our day so we have more time to enjoy foreplay together?
- What would your most romantic foreplay session involve?
- Do you prefer to be spontaneous in what we do as foreplay or plan it out?
- In what ways do you like to mix up your foreplay moves?
- If you were giving a woman advice on foreplay what is your best tip?
- If you were giving a guy advice on foreplay what is your best tip?
- Are there any foreplay habits or routines you feel need a make over?
Sensual Pleasures
- What types of sensual activities do you enjoy as foreplay for your pleasure?
- What types of sensual activities do you enjoy performing as foreplay for my pleasure?
- What parts of your body do you most enjoy getting massaged?
- What is your favourite foreplay technique to pleasure me?
- What is your favourite foreplay technique I use to pleasure you?
- What foreplay technique turns you on the most?
- How much and what types of kissing do you enjoy?
- Do we kiss enough before, during or after sex?
- How can I improve how I kiss you?
- In what ways can you imagine using an artist brush for sensual pleasure?
- What types of affection would you like more of during the day to feel loved?
- What flavour or scent of massage oil do you find the most arousing?
Stimulating Erogenous Zones
- Can intercourse be foreplay?
- What do you think are my most sensitive erogenous zones?
- What foreplay technique do you feel gets me most excited and why?
- What are your most ticklish erogenous zones?
- Which of my erogenous zones do you most enjoy stimulating?
- Which erogenous zones would you like me to stimulate more during foreplay?
- Which of your erogenous zones would you like me to pay more attention to during foreplay?
- Are there any parts of your body you would prefer me not to stimulate during foreplay?
- What types of anal play would you enjoy as part of our foreplay?
- What forms of nipple stimulation do you enjoy most?
- How often would you prefer including oral sex as foreplay?
- How do you most enjoy being touched during foreplay?
- What different touching techniques would you like to try?
- Is there a certain kind of perfume or cologne that gets you in the mood?
- Are there any foreplay skills you feel we need to learn or relearn?
Have You Ever Foreplay
- Have you ever been tied up, blindfolded and teased as foreplay?
- Have you ever used whipped cream or chocolate syrup during foreplay?
- Have you ever used body paints as foreplay?
- Have you ever performed a strip tease?
- Have you ever masturbated to visually arouse a lover?
- Have you ever played with yourself to show a lover how you like it?
- Have you ever role-played as an erotic photographer or model?
- Have you ever played any strip games like strip poker?
- Have you ever had sex without kissing?
- Have you ever slow danced naked before making love?
- Have you ever used an ice cube during foreplay?
- Have you ever used an artist brush to stimulate a lover?
- Have you ever had a naked pillow fight?
- Have you ever engaged in cyber foreplay with a lover before having sex?
- Have you ever cross-dressed for a role-playing?
- Have you ever dressed up just before having sex?
Mental Foreplay
- How do you feel about mental foreplay?
- In what ways can we perform mental foreplay together?
- How do you think we can use dirty talk as part of our foreplay?
- In what ways do you feel erotica can be used as foreplay?
- How do you feel about watching porn together as foreplay?
- How do you think we can use our cell phones in our foreplay?
- What types of visual stimulation gets you excited?
- Do you get turned on watching me play with myself?
- What do you do to get ready for sex together?
- How do you feel about exploring and sharing our sexual fantasies?
- What kinds of erotic role-playing scenarios would you like to try?
- How do you feel about using text or instant messaging to flirt with each other?
- What do you think about writing dirty letters or emails to each other?
- What types of clothing do I wear that make you think of having sex?
- What can I do that will make you fantasize all day about having sex with me?
- What types of romantic gestures are most likely to get you in the mood to make love?
- What foods or smells do you find to be an aphrodisiac?
- How can I best set the mood for a night of romantic love making?
Wild and Fun Foreplay
- How do you think we can make foreplay more fun?
- In what ways do you feel we can make our foreplay more creative?
- What kinds of foreplay games have you played?
- What kinds of foreplay games would you like to play?
- What sex toys would you like to use as part of our foreplay?
- What kinds of food would you like to use in foreplay?
- What types of sexy clothing or lingerie gets you aroused?
- What sex toys for guys would you like to use in our foreplay?
- What anal sex toys would you like to use with our foreplay?
- Are there any types of rough foreplay you would enjoy?
- What would you do to me if you had me tied up and blindfolded?
- How would you most like to tantalize and tease me as foreplay?
- How would you use a butt plug during foreplay?
- How would you use a vibrator during foreplay?
- How would you use a dildo during foreplay?
- What types of foreplay techniques have you experienced while blindfolded?
- How would you use feathers in foreplay?
- Do you have any fetishes that you would like to explore in our foreplay?
Foreplay Possibilities
- What new types of foreplay would you enjoy experimenting with?
- What foreplay technique would you like to try that you have not done yet?
- Where do you get your foreplay ideas?
- How do you think we can come up with new foreplay ideas to try?
- How do you feel about experimenting with creative new foreplay techniques?
- Where do you think is the best place to find creative foreplay ideas?
- Are there any SM foreplay ideas you would like to try?
- How do you feel about spanking as part of foreplay?
- How do you feel about being blindfolded while I surprise you with pleasure?
- Are there any bondage devices you would like to use in our foreplay?
- How would you most like to spice up our foreplay?
- What is the kinkiest type of foreplay you can think of?
- What is the nastiest type of foreplay you can think of?
- What is the wildest type of foreplay you can think of?
- What is the most imaginative foreplay technique you’ve experienced or heard of?
- What is the kinkiest foreplay you have ever experienced?
- What is the kinkiest foreplay activity you have ever performed?
- If we switch bodies, what types of foreplay would you like to experience?
- What household items can you imagine using for pleasuring each other?
- How do you think we can recreate the exciting sexual curiosity of our first make out sessions?
These foreplay questions are just a few samples to help get your intimate conversation started. Use them to trigger your own ideas for fun sexy questions to ask each other. Try to come up with your own sex questions that will help you reveal new ways to improve your sex life. For more relationship questions about a range of topics, check out the 1000 Questions to Ask Your Partner and 500 Intimate Questions for Couples. If you are just starting to date, the dating questions can help you determine if you should continue to pursue the relationship or not. If you’re already a couple, the love questions can help improve your relationship and even help fix your marriage.
