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How do you feel about your first sexual experiences?
If either of you are looking forward to your first sexual experience, rephrase the question to ask about your expectations, thoughts and feelings. Everyone wants their first sexual experience to be special. During your first sexual encounter, your body chemistry intensifies your thoughts and emotions to leave a lasting impression that may affect all future intimate relationships. First time experiences range from traumatic to mundane to thrilling. Some people want to forget their first time while others cherish the memories. But rather than focusing on when you lost your virginity, consider all the other possible first time experiences of an erotic, sensual or sexual nature. Each of these events in your past affect the intimacy in your relationship to a varying degree. By asking intimate questions regarding how you each feel about various first time sexual experiences, you’ll get a better understanding of each other’s desires, preferences, inhibitions and fears.
For more relationship questions, get a copy of 500 Intimate Questions for Couples and start a discussion to discover new ways to improve your sex life. What other first time experiences can you think of? Please leave a comment.
