In your opinion, how is having sex different from making love?
Making love is normally associated with romance and emotional intimacy while having sex may be viewed as just a physical activity. But where you draw the line can become the root of some serious issues in a relationship. How you both answer this question can give clues as to your expectations regarding love, sex and intimacy. For instance, couples may have sex to relieve stress as one among many possible reasons. Due to time constraints some sex sessions may also be performed very quickly before work or sleep without much foreplay or after play. In these situations, one of you may view the sex as emotionally fulfilling while the other feels something is lacking. Even if both of you experienced an orgasm, a different type of sexual expression may be required for one of you to feel that you were making love together. Just sex may be okay at times as long as a corresponding amount of quality lovemaking occurs to compensate.
Also, different attitudes about sex and lovemaking can lead to interesting rationalizations regarding issues of fidelity. Masturbation may be deemed cheating by some people while others may view any activity with another partner that does not involve intercourse to be okay. Get 500 Intimate Questions for Couples and ensure you know the answers to these important relationship questions.
What aspects of your parent’s relationship do you feel most influence you in our relationship?
We all know that our parents had a tremendous influence on how our own mindset and behaviour patterns formed. As kids we pick up all kinds of information that gets integrated into our thoughts, feelings and actions. Without even realizing it, we tend to model their behaviours and pick up some of their attitudes and opinions. We also consciously reject certain aspects and do the complete opposite. By asking each other intimate questions about your parent’s relationships, you will discover clues about how your relationship may unfold. These type of relationship questions can lead to some extremely important discussions.
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What forms of sex education did you receive and how are you continuing to learn more?
When and how someone learns about sex can have a significant impact on their attitudes and behaviours in a loving relationship. By discussing intimate questions regarding how you both first learned about sex, you may discover false beliefs and negative thinking patterns that can be adjusted or relearned. And since there are always new tips and techniques for improving your skills as a lover, finding out if your partner is open to learning new ideas can be very revealing about your future sex life together. Developing your curiosity about sex and exploring creative new lovemaking ideas together can be very rewarding.
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Here is a recap of last week’s daily sex questions. We hope you enjoy discussing the daily sex questions with the one you love. These intimate questions are intended to help you start a conversation and inspire you to spice up your love life. We hope these sexy questions help you improve your relationship and fix your marriage. If you are just starting a relationship, our dating questions may help reveal who’s right for you.
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