What forms of affection and non-sexual intimacy do you want more of in our relationship?
Following on from yesterday’s relationship question, feeling loved and appreciated by your partner involves much more than having sex or making love. Various signs of caring and affection throughout the day can be extremely important to your love life especially if they don’t directly lead to sex. Think of it like charging a love battery. If it’s fully charged, your sexual energy will be more intense. You can use it without recharging for a while, but eventually it drains and puts out the spark in your sex life.
Maintaining an intimate connection with hugs, kisses and touching (holding hands, cuddling, caresses, etc.) throughout the day is essential for keeping your love energy glowing. When you add in various types of emotional intimacy (communication, flirting, thoughtfulness, support, mutual fun, etc.), you can amp up the power even more. Ask each other intimate questions about what helps power up your love and you’ll be surprised by the sexual energy you can generate in the bedroom.
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What do you feel are the keys to a long lasting, monogamous relationship?
There was a recent article in the news about a new survey suggesting couples are encountering relationship problems much sooner. Rather than a 7 year itch, couples are finding day to day stresses are causing relationship issues as early as 3 years. This “three year glitch” comes with increased complaints about small irritations that used to be overlooked. These passion killers eventually lead to a decline in emotional intimacy and less sex.
You can combat the statistics and ensure your relationship has a fighting chance by discussing what you both believe contributes to a long lasting and happy relationship. When you are aware of what’s essential for your relationship, you’ll be better prepared to make things work. If you’re married or in a long term relationship, keep tabs on how your love life is going by asking each other a few intimate questions now and again. If you’re just starting a relationship, dating questions about how to keep your passion alive for the long term can help you create the foundation for a wonderful partnership.
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Foreplay is an extremely important part of an intimate sexual relationship. But the type and quantity of foreplay that we desire changes all the time. In some situations very little physical stimulation may be required to become aroused because you’ve both used “mental foreplay” to get excited leading up to your sexual encounter. At other times, the stress of the day may require a wind down period of relaxing sensual pleasure before making love together. To feel fully satisfied, an orgasm is not always enough. The quality time together enjoying mutually shared pleasures is what makes for an emotionally fulfilling sex life. Emotional intimacy also involves a range of feelings from affectionate caring to intense passion to naughty fun. By asking intimate sexual questions about foreplay, you can identify your individual preferences and expectations. You’ll discover ways that you can make foreplay even more fun for both of you before and after sex.
Here is a variety of fun sexy questions to ask each other about foreplay. They are intended to be gender neutral so specific references to penis, clitoris, vagina, etc. are left out on purpose. Use these intimate questions to explore how you can spice up your love life with more creative sexual pleasure. These sex questions are not intended to be fired off at each other all at once or even in any particular order. You can even ponder them yourself to discover your own feelings and desires. Note that some questions may seem very similar but the wording is different which affects how you think about it. You’re also likely to get slightly or even wildly different answers and followup discussions. In this way you’ll get more insight into both of your attitudes and beliefs. Also, for questions phrased for yes/no type responses, follow up with a request to explain thoughts or feelings about the answer or give your own feedback to keep the discussion going.
Foreplay Questions: Quantity and Quality
- How important is foreplay to you for great sex?
- When does foreplay end and sex begin?
- What makes for good foreplay?
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Sensual Pleasures
- What types of sensual activities do you enjoy as foreplay for your pleasure?
- What types of sensual activities do you enjoy performing as foreplay for my pleasure?
- What parts of your body do you most enjoy getting massaged?
- See More Intimate Questions: Sensual Pleasure & Erogenous Zones
Stimulating Erogenous Zones
- Can intercourse be foreplay?
- What do you think are my most sensitive erogenous zones?
- What foreplay technique do you feel gets me most excited and why?
- What are your most ticklish erogenous zones?
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Have You Ever Sex Play Questions
- Have you ever been tied up, blindfolded and teased as foreplay?
- Have you ever used whipped cream or chocolate syrup during foreplay?
- Have you ever used body paints as foreplay?
- Have you ever performed a strip tease?
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Mental Foreplay to Arouse Desire
- How do you feel about mental stimulation as foreplay?
- How do you think we can use dirty talk as part of our foreplay?
- In what ways do you feel erotica can be used as foreplay?
- How do you feel about watching porn together as foreplay?
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Wild and Fun Foreplay
- How do you think we can make foreplay more fun?
- In what ways do you feel we can make our foreplay more creative?
- What kinds of foreplay games have you played?
- What kinds of foreplay games would you like to play?
- See More Intimate Questions to Make Foreplay More Fun
Extra Naughty Foreplay Possibilities
- How do you think we can come up with new foreplay ideas to try?
- How do you feel about spanking as part of foreplay?
- How do you feel about being blindfolded while I surprise you with pleasure?
- Are there any bondage devices you would like to use in our foreplay?
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These foreplay questions are just a few samples to help get your intimate conversation started. Use them to trigger your own ideas for fun sexy questions to ask each other. Try to come up with your own sex questions that will help you reveal new ways to improve your sex life. For more relationship questions about a range of topics, check out the 1000 Questions to Ask Your Partner and 500 Intimate Questions for Couples.
If you are just starting to date, the dating questions can help you determine if you should continue to pursue the relationship or not. If you’re already a couple, the love questions can help improve your relationship and even help fix your marriage.
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How do you feel about your first sexual experiences?
If either of you are looking forward to your first sexual experience, rephrase the question to ask about your expectations, thoughts and feelings. Everyone wants their first sexual experience to be special. During your first sexual encounter, your body chemistry intensifies your thoughts and emotions to leave a lasting impression that may affect all future intimate relationships. First time experiences range from traumatic to mundane to thrilling. Some people want to forget their first time while others cherish the memories. But rather than focusing on when you lost your virginity, consider all the other possible first time experiences of an erotic, sensual or sexual nature. Each of these events in your past affect the intimacy in your relationship to a varying degree. By asking intimate questions regarding how you each feel about various first time sexual experiences, you’ll get a better understanding of each other’s desires, preferences, inhibitions and fears.
For more relationship questions, get a copy of 500 Intimate Questions for Couples and start a discussion to discover new ways to improve your sex life. What other first time experiences can you think of?
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