Mar 11
28
Fun Sexy Questions: Bondage Play
How do you feel about experimenting with bondage?
Let’s carry on the kinky sex theme this week with some sexy questions about various types of erotic activities you can use to spice up your sex life. These aren’t going to be dating questions but rather questions for couples in longer term sexual relationships. These activities require a great deal of trust in your partner. Bondage play in particular demands that you have a significant level trust in each other. While a fear factor may add to the erotic thrill, you definitely want to eliminate any real dangers.
Bondage play can arouse very intense feelings. By transferring control, the emotional and physical dynamics of sex change. This can be exciting and fun or extremely distressing. Ask your partner how they feel about experimenting with bondage and start an intimate discussion to get a sense of how they may react in different scenarios. You can talk about who would be dominant or submissive, different sexual roleplay fantasies to act out or various restraint techniques to help explore your individual perspectives and desires.
If you’re just starting out with bondage play, I highly recommend you get the Bondage Bedsheet that comes with a velcro restraint kit for lovers. It’s designed for light bondage so it feels less threatening for beginners who need to know that they can escape if they really feel the need to. The ankle and wrist cuffs are much safer than ropes or ties and can also be quickly and easily moved to permit a wide variety of bondage positions.
What are your thoughts on bondage play? What fun sexy questions would you ask your partner to start a conversation about trying bondage to spice up your adult play? Please leave a comment.
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Mar 11
27
Sexy Questions of the Week #6
Here is a recap of last week’s daily sex questions. We hope you enjoy discussing fun relationship questions with the one you love. These intimate questions are intended to help you start a conversation and inspire you to spice up your love life. We believe these sexy questions can help you improve your relationship and fix your marriage. If you are just starting a relationship, our dating questions may help reveal who’s right for you.
- What kinds of activities do you consider to be kinky?
- What kinds of unusual things do you find erotic and get turned on by?
- How kinky or sexually adventurous do you feel you are and why?
- What kinds of fetishes have you heard about that arouse your interest?
- What are some kinky activities you would like to try and what are off limits for you?
- Would you consider yourself more of an exhibitionist or voyeur and why?
Check back to each of the daily sex questions to see related resources and other useful information for getting the love, sex and intimacy you desire and deserve.
How do you feel about discussing kinky sex ideas with someone you’re dating? How would you go about discovering a potential partner’s sexual preferences to see how well they match your own? Please leave a comment with your perspective.
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Would you consider yourself more of an exhibitionist or voyeur and why?
To varying degrees we are all naturally curious about how other people have sex. Some people find it exciting to watch others engaged in erotic or sexual activities. Other people get a sexual thrill from being watched. Even the possibility of being caught having sex can give some people a rush of excitement. In either case, a sense of being a bit naughty can add a boost to your arousal.
You can spice up your sex life by taking advantage of your individual sexual preferences for watching or being watched. Sexy questions that get you talking about your erotic desires regarding exhibitionism or voyeurism can lead to some sizzling hot sex games. It doesn’t even matter which either of you lean toward because every combination of preferences can be used to enhance your adult play.
If you’re more of an exhibitionist and your partner is more of a voyeur, consider sexual roleplay ideas involving an erotic photographer and model. You can even make masturbation videos as homemade porn for your lover. If you both enjoy a bit of exhibitionism, you can roleplay sexual fantasies and make a porn together for your own private viewing or showing. If you both enjoy watching, you can switch roles in the above scenarios, watch couples porn together or make arrangements to view a live sex show.
If you’re interested in creating your own self made porn, take a look at Make Your Own Adult Video – The Couple’s Guide to Making Sensual Home Movies From Setting the Scene to Making the Scene. Spice up your love life and discover how to roleplay sexual fantasies in front of a camera.
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Mar 11
25
Dating Questions: Try Kinky Sex Play
What are some kinky activities you would like to try and what are off limits for you?
Even if you’re not yet in a physically intimate relationship, asking dating questions about kinky sex play can lead to some important discussions. These are not the types of question for a first date. However, they are fun to talk about when you’ve developed a sense of trust with each other.
It’s exciting to discover how sexually curious and adventurous your partner wants to be. Of course you’ll also be able to discover what sorts of inhibitions you each have and to what degree they may limit your sex life in the future. Sexual inexperience, lack of knowledge about sex or even misinformation can play a part in how people feel about various sexual practices. When you have intimate conversations about the various types of naughty fun you can have together, think of it as planting erotic seeds that may take root once the conditions are right.
If you’re in a sexual relationship and want to explore some kinky foreplay ideas, check out our Frisky Foreplay Bedroom Games for Couples. It comes as a package of two erotic dice games with six levels of sensual pleasure ranging from warm and loving to wild and kinky. As you play, you’ll encounter various sexy ideas that may push the limits of your sexual comfort zone. The player willing to go the farthest (or can bluff really well) wins. Here is a little teaser video:
You can download the Extra Naughty Frisky Foreplay game for Kindle right now and enjoy some wildly sexy fun tonight. It contains a lot more kinky sex content for straight, gay, and lesbian couples. There are activities for threesomes too. Once you get the book, visit Fooling Around Game to download the PDF of this sexy game design. This game also works with our dirty truth or dare games featured in the sidebar.
Dare your lover to try a high stakes, sexy dice game where you play to win each other. You’ll both get lucky!
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Mar 11
24
Dating Questions: Sexual Fetishes
What kinds of fetishes have you heard about that arouse your interest?
A fetish is a form of sexual desire in which gratification is linked to a particular object, item of clothing, part of the body or activity. The degree of eroticism for the fetish item is usually abnormal. This may or may not be a problem for the person with the fetish or their partner. As a topic for dating questions, directly asking someone if they have a fetish might seem a little inappropriate. But when you ask your partner about their awareness of fetishes and any that interest them, you can start an intimate discussion where you both may feel more comfortable revealing any fetish like desires.
Fetish play can be a fun form of kinky sex that you can experiment with to spice up your sex life. If you do discover that your partner has an intense fetish that you’re not comfortable with, this may be a sign of a potentially unhealthy relationship that you may need to evaluate carefully. There is a big difference between normal sexual turn ons and fetishes that can lead to problems unless you have compatible erotic preferences.
If you’re curious about different kinds of sexual fetishes and the types of sex play other couples enjoy, browse the JT’s Stockroom website for some ideas (click the banner below). Look through it with your partner and use the different categories of sex toys to spark up a hot, intimate sex talk about how they might be used in your erotic adventures together. Try not to be too critical about any of the items even if they seem really bizarre to you. Be as open as you can to the erotic possibilities and keep the conversation going. Your partner may have a special fantasy that includes a kinky toy and you might be surprised just how fun it can be.
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How kinky or sexually adventurous do you feel you are and why?
Sex doesn’t always have to be romantic, sensual and loving. It can and should be a little wild, naughty and fun too. For two people in love, sex can be a life long erotic adventure where you get to discover all sorts of pleasure possibilities. You want to know that your partner is open and willing to explore how thrilling sex can be even if it means getting a little dirty or messy. Ask sexy questions to start a conversation discussing how you each feel about more adventurous types of sex to determine if you have compatible perspectives. These are great dating questions to ask your partner since it gives you a sense of how successful your relationship will be. It’s not a question of what you’ve done already but rather if you’re prepared to keep your sex life together exciting, interesting and fun.
Take a look at the book A Little Bit Kinky. It’s a couples guide to rediscovering the thrill of sex. It’ll inspire you to push past your inhibitions to savour new sensual delights and make your sex life sizzle.
If you want to explore some kinky sex play, browse the website for JT’s Stockroom together with your partner. Just click on the banner below – they have a full range of erotic accessories for any kind of adult play you can imagine (and a lot that may shock and amaze you). They also have a lot of information to help you explore more adventurous sex play safely and with confidence.
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