How do you feel about role reversal and gender play?
This is another fun sex question to ask your partner regarding how they feel about a diverse range of kinky sex ideas. Gender play and role reversal can be sensitive subjects but it may be something you would both find erotically exciting to explore. Role reversal can be as simple as switching from a more dominant to a submissive state of mind when it comes to your normal bedroom behaviour. You might even experience greater empathy for your lover and create a deeper emotional connection as well. Some people also like to have fun with gender play in various ways including crossdressing and the use of artificial genitals (strap-on, packer, vaginal prosthesis, etc.). Roleplay games involving different sexual orientations can be a wild way to add a twist to your sex life.
See Gender Play Games in our article Dirty Dating Ideas to Inspire Your Sexual Roleplaying Games for a few inspiring roleplay ideas.

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What forms of BDSM play have you heard of and how do you feel about them?
There is a diverse range of sexual practices that people engage in for erotic pleasure. You or your partner are likely to have certain erotic interests that you believe to be out of the ordinary, but may actually be fairly common. Many people keep these erotic desires secret and unsatisfied without even realizing their partner may have similar or compatible interests and desires. For instance, you may have a desire to spank your lover’s ass, but resist even though they may love the feeling of receiving an erotic spanking. Or they would love to dress in black leather and dominate you as their sex slave while you privately yearn to be a sexual submissive. If you knew each other’s deepest erotic urges, you would be able to spice up your sex life with an entirely new realm of pleasure possibilities.
It may seem a little intimidating if you directly tell your lover about specific sexual desires that you believe are shocking or perverted. Instead, try asking playful sex questions about a range of BDSM ideas and discuss how you each feel about them. You may discover a variety of activities that you would both enjoy experimenting with. As you get more comfortable with BDSM play and learn the ropes (pun intended), you’ll be better able to express other desires and see where they lead.

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How do you feel about ass play and anal pleasuring?
Anal sex is a forbidden pleasure enjoyed by both men and women of all sexual orientations. It’s more than just anal intercourse. The anus is rich in nerve endings and is a very sensitive erogenous zone. Anal play can be extremely stimulating and pleasurable for both of you. The taboo nature of anal sex makes it both off limits and mysteriously intriguing. Some people feel a sense of naughty excitement exploring ass play together while others react with disgust at the mere mention of it.
Start an intimate discussion with your lover by asking some probing sex questions about anal sex play to get a sense of how they feel about it. By talking about various types of anal pleasuring activities, you can explore your individual desires and reservations about this sensitive subject. Certain negative reactions may be based on bad experiences in the past or from misinformation about this kind of erotic activity. Learning more about it together can help you decide if anal pleasuring is something you want to add to your sexual repertoire.
Note that one of the primary objections to anal intercourse is the fear of pain. Relaxation is critical to great anal sex. Stress related tension may build up in the ass making anal play less pleasurable for both of you. More foreplay will help your lover relax so that they can fully enjoy the intimately erotic experience of anal stimulation. Here is an excellent how to have anal sex guide: Pain Free Anal Sex to find out more information.
See The Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Women! if you’re even a tiny bit curious about exploring the taboo pleasure of anal play. Discover all the tips and techniques you need to ensure that you both have an amazing experience together.
There are also a large variety of anal sex toys availalbe for both men and women.
What kinds of kinky roleplaying games would you like to try?
Sexual roleplaying can be a fun way to spice up your sex life. Ask your lover sexy questions about various erotic scenarios they would like to roleplay. These may be related to their sexual fantasies or may just be something sexy they’ve seen in a steamy movie or read about in a spicy novel. You may discover a few that turn you on too. Talking together about different roleplay ideas can start you thinking and planning how to act out these sexy scenarios. It doesn’t have to be elaborate but you could get costumes and various other accessories to make it more realistic. If you’re really adventurous, you could even create your own home made adult movies with you as the porn stars.
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As you explore these sexy scenarios, dare each other to play naughty and experience some deliciously wicked fun together in or out of your bedroom. Use the ideas to stimulate your erotic imaginations together. You’re bound to come up with even more of your own roleplay fantasies to spice up your sex play. Get one of our sexual roleplaying books, pick a sexy fantasy scenario, and start a lust filled adventure for two tonight.
To enhance your roleplaying fantasies and adult dress up games even more, check out some of the very sexy costumes available online. You don’t need costumes to enjoy roleplaying, but they can help get you in the right frame of mind to more easily act out your character’s role.
For even more inspiration, see our article Sexual Fantasies & Erotic Role Play Ideas for Couples.